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Patris's avatar

You are intrepid. And though I have hitched when I was young enough (to get to the American Club in Kiffisia with my best friend) that more than one car would stop, I’m a grandmom now and must stop myself from worrying about/annoying people younger than me like it’s my raison d’être.

You write with such a facility to put a reader in the time, place, emotion of experience that I can only say these are such perfect stories. As are your poems. Stay warm, both you and Laurie, you have miles ahead of you to go Wes…

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Weston Parker's avatar

Thanks Patris.

And thank you for your introduction to the book. I appreciate the effort it took. I assembled all of the various parts and now I have Amy Myers helping me push it through the publication process at Amazon. It's over 200 pages because it's in the 5.5x8.5 format which is half the size of a Google docs page at 8.5x11.

It is an undertaking that I hope will put a hardcover book in my hands to take to Europe where I can edit/proofread it at my leisure while eating a croissant, drinking first rate coffee with a view of something exquisite and charming. Ten days from now I intend to be sitting in a cafe in Avignon looking back on shoveling a shit ton of snow with humor and fondness. In summary, I am looking forward to looking back on this. Ha.

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Patris's avatar

I can only say you deserve that beautiful cafe in Avignon, Wes. Can imagine you and Laurie walking that city - and absorbing the serenity.

I’m hoping you’ll have the book on Amazon before the next holiday season. A tradition here is that every child gets a special book (sometimes two) from me. At least one will be your beautiful work.

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Weston Parker's avatar

Won't that be something special, certainly for me and I hope they enjoy it. Cafe Le Cide is a pretty nice spot in town with a really pretty carousel across the cobbled stones. It sits in front of the town hall- the whole damn thing is gorgeous. I adore Mexico but France is a whole different kind of beauty, really more my kind and the food is my baby.

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Patris's avatar

Sounds idyllic - all aspects (not the least a carousel and cobblestones.) what an environment to just be. True envy here.

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Stanley Wotring's avatar

A carpenter who can’t always nail must be a poet.

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Weston Parker's avatar

I picked up a hammer two days ago just to pull out a small nail. It felt familiar and odd at the same time. All the calluses on my hands are gone and I don't have any cuts in various stages of healing nor any splinters for the first time in decades

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Patris's avatar

Re-reading these as I’ve warned. They are treasures.

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Weston Parker's avatar

I really appreciate you giving them a re-read

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faye boam's avatar

As always, you've brightened my day with laughter, Wes. I was just dying reading about the meaningful glance. Flirting is always quite a mystery, isn't it?

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Weston Parker's avatar

I certainly was to that 19-20 kid. My wife says I'm still fairly clueless and how would I know otherwise? Poetry helps me sort things out, always has. That and essays.

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faye boam's avatar

I'm sure it's part of our fundamental role as women to confuse you a bit. I suppose you might have a leg up on many with the muse's penchant for speaking to you

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faye boam's avatar

This must've been a link in an email... it just took me to my gmail inbox. No Maria in sight!

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Weston Parker's avatar

As a younger fellow, I was decidedly "non-musey" and I was generally confounded by women, still am.

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faye boam's avatar

Yeah, that sounds about right

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Malcolm J McKinney's avatar

Brings to mind a newer lyric of mine.

One Good Cowboy

I'm not the kind of woman

To tumble for a man

Who comes and goes like a stallion

Running free

But all of a sudden

I felt my heart stumble

When I saw that red haired cowboy

Smile at me

He came down from Idaho

Riding hard on the rodeo

Oh, oh I loved him

All that we had time

He's one good cowboy

Too bad he ain't mine

I'm not the kind of woman

To wager on a dream

When I know I'd best keep one foot

Flat on the floor

But when the blood is running hot

The head just tags along

Then damned if I don't pray

For one kiss more

He came down from Idaho

Riding hard on the rodeo

Oh, oh I loved him

All that we had time

He's one good cowboy

Too bad he ain't mine

Ride them ponies hard

Aw don't you dare let go

Cause you may never get the chance

To ride in a better show

He came down from Idaho

Riding hard on the rodeo

Oh, oh I loved him

All that we had time

He's one good cowboy

Too bad he ain't mine

Malcolm McKinney 2021

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Weston Parker's avatar

Sounds like it would make a decent song.

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Malcolm J McKinney's avatar

It's finished, just need to get my studio back to work.

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Weston Parker's avatar

Was the grandson looking at schools?

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Cheryl Towers's avatar

No - he had never been and wanted to go. However, he loved it and thinks maybe Columbia would be a great place for grad school (he’s a college sophomore at the moment). We were all thrilled that he was so comfortable and confident enough to go off on his own sometimes. Plus, we had cheesecake for dinner Friday night! Just cheesecake. 😇

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Weston Parker's avatar

Columbia's such a great place. Our older son went there for undergrad and grad school. He loved it. A cheesecake meal has all the major food groups, I think.

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Weston Parker's avatar

Hey Cheryl, next Sunday is the 3rd one of these hitching essays and a girl makes an appearance. Did you ever read "Even Cowgirls Get The Blues"?

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Weston Parker's avatar

Her name was Sissy and I never forgot her.

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I never knew they made a movie of it.

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