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Jonathan Foster's avatar

Such a fine way of framing family. Both in poem and in home. Thanks Wes. Excellent poem. Lots of slow burn.

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Weston Parker's avatar

Thanks Jonathan, slow burns are the best kind especially in cold weather. On very cold jobs we kept a drum burning all day with scrap wood. One of the laborers put a big piece of red hot coal into his steel lunch pail and tucked it into his jacket. He said it worked well right up until it burned some holes on the inside. That boy also tried cutting rope with a miter box.

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Jonathan Foster's avatar

I love your very carpentery disdain in the last sentence there Wes.

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Weston Parker's avatar

Back then, I worked with some improbably stupid people and I tried very hard to put the skill into them so they could feed themselves. Most of them could.

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Ann Collins's avatar

I read these words about Home as a sacred space. A temporary physical shelter for souls who are briefly and beautifully embodied here. Gorgeous work.

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Weston Parker's avatar

Thanks Ann. I see it the same way, but I have vain hopes of my houses remaining long after I'm gone, maybe several hundred years. In the big picture, a couple hundred years is pretty brief.

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Ann Collins's avatar

Indeed. No doubt the details matter. The energy & care you put into the craft is beautiful and enduring. The laws of thermodynamics right? Energy (Love?) cannot be destroyed.

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Weston Parker's avatar

I think you are talking about building but, what's interesting is, you might be talking about poetry. How cool is that?

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Ann Collins's avatar

Yes, the Poetry of ordinary days. That’s my jam. 👊❤️

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Weston Parker's avatar

That's my favorite jam too! We should come up with a jam like name and by "we", I mean you, since I'm no good at that.

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Ann Collins's avatar

Hmmmm...good idea. Let’s think about this.

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Dian Parker's avatar

A well crafted home is one of joy and pride. A lovely poem, filled with tenderness and love.

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Weston Parker's avatar

thanks for reading Dian.

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Laurie Easton Parker's avatar

This poem brings to mind some lyrics from a George & Ira Gershwin tune called "The Man I Love". The line goes:

"He'll build a little home

that's meant for two

from which I'll never roam

who would, would you?"

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Weston Parker's avatar

very smoochy.

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Stanley Wotring's avatar

A home can be a measurement of history.

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Weston Parker's avatar

Yes, a very personal history.

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